Anyone smart enough to answer this.??? i wanna learn how to do reverse psychology. because my boyfriend always?

.he always outwits me everytime we have these little arguments (we be just playing) but for ex: isaid blue is better than red., look at the sky., he answered the sky is black I then said no it isn't you're crazy. He said what color is at night.??" So iwas just wondering how do I ever win., because I feel very stupid. P.s please no stupid remarks because I'm very serious thanks.